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Are We The Person We wanted To Be?
   
 

15 Tevet 5770

January 1st, 2010

 

 

To My Dear Students,

 

At the beginning of this new secular year, I would recommend that you make a resolution in the form of a question.  A passenger who was on board the plane that landed safely in the Hudson River was asked his response to the traumatic incident.  He said that as the aircraft seemed about to plunge into the water he asked himself a question:  "Am I the man I wanted to be?"

For each of us the answer should be "no," since there is always room for improvement in building character and deepening relationships.  May our resolution for the coming year be to keep that passenger's question ever before us.  Are we the person we wanted to be?  What can we do, and what can we stop doing, to bring us nearer to that ideal self?

If this question is important enough to ask before death, it is important enough to ask throughout life.

Shabbat Shalom,

Your Rabbi