RABBI MILLER’S BLOG JANUARY, 2010
I hear it said that the forty or so students who attend my Shabbat morning Torah Class represent a strong showing, that we should be proud to see so many adults who are eager and regular attendees for learning.
As I surveyed the room on a recent Shabbat, I did not share that assessment—and I said so. From a congregation that boasts many hundreds of adults, two-score students is a pitiful percentage. The multitude of absentees mocks at least the first part of our Temple’s creedal couplet: “Strength of Tradition, Warmth of Community.”
Think of what it would mean for you to say to your children: “I/We are going out this morning to the Rabbi’s Torah class. It is Shabbat and this is what Jewish people have done for thousands of years. I/We think it is important to study the Torah with our Rabbi and we will be back home in a couple of hours. Shabbat Shalom.”
Could anything be a greater, more positive statement to your children? Could anything make a greater impression? They will remember for a lifetime that you associated being a Jewish adult with learning the great messages of our heritage, that Judaism is not just preparation for a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, but is a lifelong pursuit of wisdom, truth, and knowledge!
Being with our children on Saturday morning is important to their development. But being away from our children on Shabbat morning can be even more important to their growth.
We can say to our children that Judaism is important, but if we do not affirm it in our decisions they will know that we do not back up our words with deeds. Yes, the key word is “decisions.” You decide week in and week out to attend or to not attend Torah study. It is your choice. It is your example that you are setting.
I read this BLOG to the Torah class and invited their responses. Several people said that too many attendees would threaten the intimacy of the class. I countered that I did not foresee members flocking to Saturday morning Torah Study, despite my request. I concluded by saying that we will evaluate at the end of January whether our membership has responded to this BLOG and its invitation.
It should be interesting!
Faithfully,
Rabbi Miller